Tynee Talks: Dating in a Pandemic with Jordyn Anese, Shoot your shot!

In this episode Tynee Talks to Jordyn Anese, creator of "Shoot your shot Sundays". Tynee & Jordyn discuss the importance of Shooting your Shot in Life and Dating; Dating B.C. (Before Coronavirus) and also Dating in the midst of a PANDEMIC. Tynee & Jordyn explore the complexities of dating, dating experiences, and the importance of dating someone that not only matches your fly, but your temperament as well.

Find out who won the Shoot Your Shot contest, for a chance to win a date for two, at the brand new upscale restaurant, Prime Eight Ten, located in Flint, Michigan.

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Tynee Talks: How to Avoid Toxic Cons: Lessons Learned from #Jonthecon

He said the right things...
Did the right things...
He even proposed...
IT WAS ALL A LIE!!!!

LISTEN and find out more about #jonthecon

Tynee Talks to the beautiful and brave Jenni, about her experience with Con Man #JontheCon **Click on this link below to learn more about Jon https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXPc...

Find out how to avoid men like and listen to the lessons learned after encountering a toxic con man!

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Tynee Talks "I don't want a Husband..." with Dr. LaToya Owens

In this Tynee Talk, Tynee talks to Dr. LaToya Owens, a featured Black Moms Blog contributing writer about her article entitled: "I Don’t Want A Husband. Signed, A Woman That Doesn’t Want To Be A Wife."

Find out how gender roles, patriarchy, media, and poor advice affects marriage and relationships...

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Tynee Talks: Aisha Howard #anchorbae

Tynee Talks to "Anchor Bae" Aisha "Tanae" Howard.

Aisha "Tanae" Howard is helping to report balanced news and change the face of media. Click the link to check out my fun interview her. We discussed being in relationship "predicaments", image, current affairs, and dating. Plus Black Girl Magic and Black Girl Struggles.

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Tynee Talks to Pleasure Coach Steven Smith

Tynee Talks to Pleasure Coach Steven Smith

On my latest podcast I'm discussing sex and pleasure with Pleasure Coach Steven Smith.  Get tips on how to please your woman or your man from an expert on sex and mind seduction. Click on the Link Below and listen to the full interview.

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Tynee’ Talks: Ten Years a Slave- Sexual Bondage with Jordyn Anese

Tynee’ Talks: Ten Years a Slave- Sexual Bondage with Jordyn Anese

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Tynee` Talks with Jordyn Anese about her Ten Years a Slave to Sex (TYAS) initiative. Jordyn hopes that through her initiative she can empower young ladies to free themselves from sexual bondage and learn to be comfortable with their inner and outer self.

Tynee`Talks: What prompted you to start the TYAS initiative?

Jordyn Anese: I got to a point where I was disgusted with myself. I had a self-actualization moment where I just wanted to be free. One day I was sitting around with my friends and we all realized we were celibate. Or celibacy was for different reasons, but something about this discovery, made me realize that God was truly calling me to break free from this sexual bondage for a reason. I kept hearing the word: Transparency. I knew it was time for me to be honest with myself and be transparent. My transparency would eventually help me to empower other young women. My story isn’t just my story, its other people’s story as well.

TT: Why do you feel like sex enslaved you?

JA: I was enslaved to a feeling. I thought sex was the biggest way to express love. I thought it was the only way. I thought that if I didn’t have sex with the guy I was with, the relationship would end. I thought if I didn’t do it, someone else would.

TT: I think as women, we’ve all felt that way. Always in constant battle to “keep him”.

TT: Do you feel you place your value in your sex?

JA: Absolutely! I placed my entire value of self in sex. I now understand that sex is a gift and a gateway to life. It should be valued, but that’s not where my value begins or ends.

TT: What lesson do you wish you would have learned ten years ago?

JA: I wish I wouldn’t have lost my moral compass. I strayed from my early teachings. I wish I would have learned to value myself more. I wish I would have found a way to work through my first real relationship.

TT: What are the two most important things you’ve learned during this process?

JA: Number one, I learned to ‘Stay in the Pocket’ Staying in the pocket means sticking to what you believe in. I’m sticking to celibacy to draw closer to God. And number two, I learned how to discipline myself. Celibacy is more than denying sex, it’s about discipline.

TT: What does sex mean to you now?

JA: It means protecting my heart. I believe in soul ties. So now, I realize that abstaining from sex protects me from other people’s issues. It protects me from taking on other people’s burdens.

TT: What do you hope to instill in young women or women in general?

JA: Freedom of choice. Don’t just do it because you think you have to. And, confidence.

TT: How can women break free from sex slavery?

JA: Change your mindset. Everything starts with the minds. Someone once said, “If you kill the mind, the body will follow.” Be comfortable with losing friends. Don’t go where you used to go. It’s all a process of elimination.

You can learn more about Jordyn’s #TYAS initiative via her Youtube channel https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=GZubQK0YGrw  or follow her on Instagram/Twitter/Facebook @JordynAnese 

Tynee Talks: #Dating2K16

#Dating2K16

Dating is a tough game to play in 2K16

Dating in 2016 is equivalent to playing Russian roulette with a fully loaded gun. It’s definitely going damage you in some form or fashion. Needless to say, it's a hell of a risk! Dating pretty much sucks. You’ve all heard the horror stories from your boys’ or your homegirls’ in great detail about dating in this ratchet era. Let’s face it, times have changed and people just aren’t the same. People aren’t taking the time to get to know each other, hell people aren’t even taking the time to get to know themselves. Everything seems so rushed and out of order. If we really sat down and thought about it, there are areas in our personal lives that need extreme makeovers, before we let someone take up residence in our hearts and mental spaces. The conditions in which we live in foster such a microwavable life. There's not much time for anything. Or American work/life balance is completely off and causes for man and female relationships to have a strain.  All dudes wanna do is chill and all chicks want to do is give the impression that their relationship is hashtagable i.e, #relationshipgoals.  Ever since Beyonce’ told ya’ll: “I can have another you on a minute, matter fact he'll be here in a minute…” ya’ll ran down the fifty yard line with them lyrics and started replacing people faster than members of Destiny’s Child circa 2001. 

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So what does dating look like in 2016? A MEME, a stupid MEME. People are getting advice on relationships from MEMES. It’s the dumbest, lamest, bull-shiggity I’ve encountered in the 21^st century. And guess what? People are eating it up like a sit-down with Oprah, Dr. Phil, and Steve Harvey at a single's retreat hosted by Iyanla. To know that the strength of your relationship comes from a MEME should frighten you. I know it gives me conflicting emotions. Let’s take a look shall we...

This is Stupid

This on the fence about this one

This pretty much sums it all up

In a nutshell, I don't have the energy to date right now, I need to power up and start over in 2K17.

CONSISTENCY

Today’s word of the day is: CONSISTENCY!

In today’s world, consistency has seemingly been swallowed up by instant gratification. Instead of sticking to things or working things out, we have fallen victim to giving up or moving on to something else without a second thought. Without even trying we are on to the next.

In relationships we seek that Cliff and Clair type of love. It’s ideal. But we don’t put in the work. We don’t communicate. We’re not consistent in showing our appreciation for one another. We’re not consistent in our words or deeds. Instead of calling each other we text. Instead of getting to know each other through the good, bad and the ugly, we get an urge to go left right at the corner of semi-good. When things start to look bad, we’re completely out of dodge, and we don’t even get close to ugly because we’re not too fond of pretty.

Every year we’re perpetually trying to lose 10, 15 and 20 lbs. We sign up for our year membership at the gym, declaring that this year we’re going to stick to Kanye’s Workout Plan. We start off with an exercise routine and schedule, but then that becomes too much of a hassle. We’re not seeing results fast enough so we resort to a quick fix, like a waist trainer or some magical tea to do the trick. When all we have to do is stay the course.

We say we want to save money, but we stay in the mall. We’re not setting financial goals. So instead of seeing gains all we see is losses.

We say we want to be great. We say we want to be successful. We say we want results. We say all these things verbally. We tweet about it. Boast on our statuses about it. We even repost memes about it. But what are we actually doing about it?

Let us move forward into 2016 with consistency. Let our daily agenda be to stay the course. Let us not do something once or twice and expect success. Let the motto for 2016 be: Consistency and without a shadow of a doubt I’m sure we’ll see the sweet fruit of our labor bring forth nothing short of success! 

Real Love & Hip Hop

Rappers: Remy Ma & Papoose (Hip Hop’s Personification of Ride or Die)

In the early ninety’s Mary J. Blige was looking for a Real Love. Everyone wants that kind of love, but few us are fortunate enough to find it. She sang from the depths of her soul: "Real love, I'm searching for a real love, someone to set my heart free, real love..." Rappers Remy Ma & Papoose happened to find real love with one another and are the personification of that Real Love Mary J. was singing about.  Remy Ma and Papoose captured our hearts on the season 6 premiere episode of Love & Hip Hop New York. 

Photo Credit:@thereakremyma Instragram 

It’s been a year since Remy has been out of prison.  After doing a six year bid for literally slapping a heaux, Remy Ma is looking good, setting stages on fire and killing the game in a major way. While she was away her husband/bestfriend was there to hold her down. It’s common for a woman to hold a man down while he's locked down, but quite a rarity for a man to play that position. I applaud Pap for being a faithful man for better or for worse. You can tell by their interaction on camera, he literally loves, honors and protects Remy to the fullest extent. Their love is so TRILL that these two were married over the phone while she was away in prison. 

It wasn’t the ideal situation, but when you love someone you live by the “By Any Means Necessary Code.”  Can we say: #RelationshipGoals!!! Papoose understands how Rem felt about their phone nuptials so he reserved a castle for their wedding “do-over” in exchange for a baby to complete their family. Although Papoose has 3 children from previous relationships and Remy Ma has 1 son; Papoose wants to create a child with his one true love. They can never get the time they lost back, but Pap is making sure he does everything in his power to make sure every moment counts. I can’t wait to see what the future has in store for Hip Hop’s real life ride or die couple! 

Photo Credit: @therealremyma Instagram